Recent events have led me in a LOT of directions.
Spending time on old profiles with my former name. Looking through pictures. More importantly looking through posts.
Holy shit… I don’t even know where to start.
I guess the first thing I need to say is I am sorry. I am sorry I ever got that low. In a lot of ways I was always that low. Sometimes even lower.
The next thing I need to say is another I am sorry. I HAVE LET TO MANY PEOPLE SHAPE MY LIFE, WITH LITTLE TO NO INPUT FROM ME.
What does that mean? Well… I think everyone knows. Living a very dishonest life. I never lied, never stole, never intended to hurt.
My dishonesty, is purely based on social perception. I was never fully open with who I am… so everyone got to see a shell of me.
It is absolutely insane to me that I survived that. Every minute of everyday I hated looking at myself. Unable to relate to that person in the mirror, I could only rely on what everyone expected of me based on what I was born with in my pants.
Well fuck that. I am sorry I deceived you based on my birth defect.
Stuff…. it is all honestly so fucking awesome right now. There is a lot of people adjusting. There are some that aren’t. There are some that will never.
I am not scared to start calling people out. I am not scared to hold their hand and help them understand.
I don’t think I am scared of anything anymore. I have seen it all from physical, social, and mental abuse. I walk away from it right now with a pretty big middle finger. That is fucking good news to all of you. I am not going anywhere!
I fucking love you all. You all are going to bat for me. Keep using my name. Keep building me. I can never thank you enough. I promise to never go back to that dark place I spent most of life. Even if things pull me back everyday.
You have my attention and honesty. I am sorry for not giving you this sooner.
❤